候麦电影中的爱、愧疚与解脱:观看《女友的男友》(1987)后的一些思考

总之,今天我终于看完了候麦——法国导演埃里克·候麦——的一部电影。这部电影的名字大概是《女孩的男朋友》或者《我女友的男朋友》之类的。

总的来说,我挺喜欢这部电影的。它非常有名,据说是他一系列道德寓言故事中的一部。我之前多次听过它的名字,但从未认真看过。过去几天,我一直在等待英国签证申请的结果。我昨天提交了申请,现在正在等待,所以自然有点紧张。因此,我断断续续地看了这部电影,通常每天吃饭的时候看几分钟,最后分几次看完了。

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Love, Guilt, and Relief in Rohmer: Some Thoughts After Watching “L’Ami de mon amie” (1987)

Anyway, today I finally finished watching a film by Rohmer—the French director Éric Rohmer. The film is called something like The Girl’s Boyfriend, or My Girlfriend’s Boyfriend—something along those lines.

Overall, I quite liked it. The film is very famous and is supposedly one of his series of moral tales. I had heard its title many times before, but I had never watched it carefully. Over the past few days, I have also been waiting for the result of my UK visa application. I submitted it yesterday, and now I am waiting, so naturally I have been feeling a little nervous. I therefore watched the film intermittently, usually for a few minutes while eating each day, and eventually finished it over several sittings.

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The Weight of the News from Venezuela

I had heard the news about the earthquakes in Venezuela earlier today, but I’d only seen the text headlines and hadn’t looked closely at the reports. That was until I scrolled through Instagram and saw the devastating footage: collapsed buildings, people filming the destruction, and a voice off-camera screaming for his mother toward the rubble.

In another video, a young man sat atop his home, which had been reduced to a pile of ruins. The video was shot in HDR and incredibly high-definition—a crispness that formed a jarring, almost surreal contrast with the devastated background behind him. Even though I didn’t understand the language they were speaking (presumably Spanish), you only needed to look at the screen to understand exactly what had happened.

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Lunchtime Observations at Alma, KU Leuven: The Set Meal Rule

At the Alma 1 restaurant at KU Leuven, they clearly had chicken cutlets, but they absolutely refused to let you buy one separately, stipulating that you could only buy it as part of a set meal (5.6 euros for students).

If the set meal didn’t include the combination you wanted, and you just wanted to add something extra—for example, the set meal originally included a chicken cutlet, vegetables, and rice, but you only wanted the chicken cutlet—that was absolutely impossible there. You had to buy a whole set meal. But by then, I had already eaten lunch and couldn’t possibly eat a second one.

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